Who are or What are the Influences in Your Life?
Who are or What are the Influences in Your Life?
Have you really stopped to think about the influences in your life?
· Who has had the biggest influence?
· Who created or influenced your way of thinking?
· What did you learn from someone, that totally changed your mind about something?
· Has there been a situation take place that has had enormous influence on you?
I thought about this and it really made me dig deep. I could think of one person straight away that had a great deal of influence, but then I had to really examine the whole question.
Who are or What has had the biggest influence in your life?
This question is a real thought provoking one. Did someone or something jump into your mind straight away or did you have to think about it for a while?
The one person I know changed my life in such profound ways was my father. A generous giving man.
When I think back at that now, makes me realise what an extraordinary amazing, patience man he really was.
Is there a person who has influenced your life in such a way?
Can you look back now and find fond memories of one such person?
Do you remember them sharing with you, things that still today feel familiar and safe?
It’s an awesome feeling when influence is positive and reassuring that it stays with you forever.
My brother was and still has a huge influence in my life, not that we got on as youngsters, as lots of siblings don’t, but I always had and still have this unconditional love for him. He was and is always my hero. As we have aged our relationship has tamed and he has been a great support in my life.
There are always extraordinary people that shape our thinking, lets not forget them.
My mum was my anchor, practical and loving, a real mum was my mum. She sacrificed many things for her children, always ready and available, never was anything to much trouble.
Isn’t it great to have fond memories of great people in your life. My family had enormous influence on me as I was growing up, I was blessed and feel very lucky to have had such great rolemodels.
Everyone we meet, speak to or listen to has influence on us, everyday we are making decisions, calculating problems, and our whole day is having an influence on us from one moment to the next.. As we age we start to observe our own opinions a little more, we start to value what is important to us, we start to realise what makes us happy, and we realise we have choices on what has influence on us and what doesn’t.
What about negative influences, do you recall any negative influences in your life?
This could be people, places, situations, it could be experiences. The reason why I ask is simply to help you realise the connection that influence has or has had on your life.
Have you heard of Neuro Linguistic programming, this term explains how language and words can have such long lasting influence over your life.
Neuro Linguistic programming explains how programmed we can become by what someone tells us over and over again, so much so that we believe it to be the truth, whether it is true or not. This is how people influence us, control us, manipulate us or on the other hand this is how we have achieved so much, by inspiration, motivation and encouragement, so who are or what are the influences in your Life?
Keep the positive and ditch the negative.
Still today I am aware of the neuro linguistic programming I received as a child by negative influence. I do not let it manipulate me anymore and I try very hard to keep it a shadow programme. (shadow programme being just a memory with no emotional attachments)
The impact words of negative influence can have on you as a child are huge.
I remember my experience, the size of the words were like mountains. As a child those words grew like the walls of a cage..
The outcome of Influence is programming.
Those influences whether they be positive or negative have had an impact on your entire life.
If you have had positive influence that’s great, but if you have had negative influence then today is the day you are going to learn how to turn that programme off, no more negative influences manipulating your thinking.
My modality Introspective healing helps you understand the programme and how it can be deleted. The shadow programme will always remain but the attachments to the programme will fade.
Who are or What are the Influences in Your Life? Be a very interesting task to sit down and write down the answers. Who was a good influence? who was not and what impact did it leave on you as an adult.
This is good information in order for you to move forward with your life. Sometimes no matter how hard, we just need to bite the bullet and have a real good clean out of our thinking, inside our programming.
· What is stopping you from moving forward?
· What is stopping you from living your dream?
· What were you told as a child?
· What was your environment like growing up?
All this has an impact on our behaviours as adults. All this plays a part to where we are now in our lives.
Give this some serious thought folks, you are not where you are now, simply by coincidence.